I agree, "Divorce Busting" is a bit of a misnomer as it doesn't apply JUST to saving a marriage. It's a way to get ourselves to the place we need to really be as humans - cocky, confident, loving and happy with who we are. None of us would be here if not for the marital issues but I think we are learning a lot more than how to troubleshoot issues with our spouses.

That way of life you mentioned and the retention of confidence is something we should all be taught as children.


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