(Corri) My life feels like a hot summer day, where I'm too lazy to go and do anything... but I certainly am appreciating the day, the blue sky, the breeze... the sun...
That's about where I'm at. I can go where the cute girls are and become intensely interested but I'm apparently just not willing to pay the price.
Plus, I don't trust single women except the ones who want to be in serious relationships and I don't want to be in a serious relationship. I suspect I've got some deep seated Self Limiting Beliefs that need to be rooted out but my drive for self-improvement is on temporary hiatus.
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.. so what's the ground rules? Is he going to put you up in a nearby hotel? I don't know that I'd go with the intent of staying with him without having met him first...
Oh, we had a long discussion about whether or not I was a blanket-hog and decided that it would be okay if I stayed with him. He keeps sending me pictures from different angles to prove that he really is attractive. He even sent me a close-up of his hands because I told him that I rejected a man due to triangular fingers. Also, he told me what cologne he wears so I could go smell it at a department store beforehand. Of course, there is no possible issue with him being attracted to me since I will be all Bootylicious Girl Monkey Detective so I think we're good to go.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
(Mojo) He keeps sending me pictures from different angles to prove that he really is attractive. He even sent me a close-up of his hands because I told him that I rejected a man due to triangular fingers.
Good gawd. If I'm you're dude-enna for the day I say have fun on your trip but don't expect much.
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I'm not suggesting you dress this way, I'm just letting you know that if the guy is in his mid-40s, you might be dealing with similar expectations.
How about leotard and tights with short plaid skirt and little magnifying glass on chain and trench coat and librarian heels and hair in ponytail curling into bun?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
No offense, but I think you are still finding 'your legs.' If IC is around, he can tell you what that means.
This whole trusting thing is quite the delimma for us single folk. Especially those of use who have been married.
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I suspect I've got some deep seated Self Limiting Beliefs that need to be rooted out but my drive for self-improvement is on temporary hiatus.
I suspect... given my... uhm... mood... if I crooked a finger in your direction in the gym... it wouldn't really matter about looks or sweat... or trust... you'd vibe me... lioness, with a very cute monkey on her back that wants to play with the soap and the conditioner... and you wouldn't so mind my bunny/librarian who'd insist on a rubber... as long as I got it on you in some playful monkey manner... and then my lioness could have at you, with your blessing.
Plus, I don't trust single women except the ones who want to be in serious relationships and I don't want to be in a serious relationship.
Why wouldn't you trust the woman who is in the same sich as you? If she's honest about not wanting to be in a LTR what's the problem? Would you not have sex with (insert hot babe of your choice)if you were trapped with her in an elevator before her flight to go spend 5 years in Romania took off?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Good gawd. If I'm you're dude-enna for the day I say have fun on your trip but don't expect much.
LOL- He's just very non-sexual monkey. He was being silly not placating me with the pictures. He projects good-humored confidence about sexual matters. In fact, he told me a story about a girlfriend who annoyed him by initiating sex like he was a machine. She was always like "F*ck me over the counter right now." and he was like "Damn, baby, could you maybe give me a kiss first?" So, I asked him if he would have been more likely to honor her request if she had just brought it up as a suggestion rather than a demand and he said "Don't misunderstand. I f*cked her over the counter. I just found the way she put it annoying."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Why wouldn't you trust the woman who is in the same sich as you?
For the same reason I don't trust men, given the same sitch... and since this seems to be the 'singles' thread, I'll dish.
For example. I have gone out with a good friend of mine and her bf (and her bf has pegged me... right now... and I so like him for it)... my gf wants to get me laid... her bf says... hey so-and-so, that won't work for corri... no one in this bar will work for Corri... no one. Not unless she goes and just picks out someone... and he will have to resist the urge to flop on his back... LOL"
which I was kinda insulted by... and told him as much. To which he looks at me and says... "get over yourself."
Which then I give him the dumb eyed bunny stare.
Which to me he says... "Nope, aint gonna work."
ME: I'm sure I don't know what you are talking about."
Him: Well... no, you don't and that's your problem.
ME: I think I need to take my bunny and my monkey and go home.
Him: "Okay. But your bunny and your monkey aren't your problem."
