My mom is still going on about things. Sent me a big long email with links to various sites for me to look at (about how bad it is to sleep with an estranged spouse). I know that she would love it if I would kick him to the curb, but she is also trying to live vicariously thru me since her H has said HORRIBLE things to her and she stays because she can't afford to go. Her H makes my H look like a flipping saint.
H called today to talk discuss when he could get me his microwave (he forgot it on Saturday); told me to email him my bank info so he could start direct depositing money into my acct; at first said he wasn't sure if he was going to close the joint acct right away, but then when I said the bills were caught up, it sounded like he plans to close it down (one more nail in the coffin)...he asks if I am really anxious to get going on my glass torching (YES!), we agree it needs to be light out to hook up my propane tank, and then (I need ventilation in the room) he suggests that I go to Lowes or Home Depot, pick out an exhaust fan and "we can build something out of plywood to put it in." I'm having a hard time explaining..it was like 'we' were just doing a home project so that I can do my hobby--he is still wanting to help me, I guess is what I am trying to say. But then the conversation finishes with us agreeing that I will meet him at the old house on Wednesday to go over all the finances. whooppeeee.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
