How about you? Have you ever said anything to your W like that?
Not in so many words. I know that it would be a bad thing for her to jump the fence, but I also know that if she did, I'd still want her. While not directly addressing the subject of where my boundaries aren't, I have mentioned the following points about where my boundaries are:
1. Don't push me away. Don't keep me in the dark. 2. I will be having sex regularly. Preferably with you. I'll be glad to forsake all others as long as it doesn't usually mean forsaking you as well. Otherwise, you're free to leave, or stay, or join in as you wish.
Originally Posted By: LustForLife
Yes! Something else that works with H and I (which I notice we've been doing all week) is when we annoy each other we make a sexual joke right afterwards..like...today we were taking down the Christmas tree and I was being annoying and telling him how to put it away (we broke down and got an artificial tree this year, but anyways) and I said "just ram it in the box". Before, that sexual innuendo would have gone unanswered. But he came right back with "oh, I'll ram something in a box in a second" and went about putting away the decorations quite satisfied with himself.
Interesting. When you were annoyed with him before, did he tend to get really quiet and start avoiding you or tiptoeing around you? If so, it's really a good sign that he was able to drop that, and it'll be a bad sign if he starts doing that again.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
