The Great Wall Part II

[Burgbud]

(Corri) When you need something from someone who is unwilling to GIVE it, you are pretty much out of luck, because no matter what you do/say, you are going to come off as needy and clingy.

Ah. It's just a me thing. I could understand a woman's reasons/excuses for not wanting to have sex with me. But if she said she has no physical desire for me because she's too tired or the neighbors are too loud or the walls are too thin...that wouldn't fly.


When you LOSE the anger, and the person honestly knows that you aren't BLAMING them, you ACCEPT them... but you are OUTTA THERE... most times... it's the 2x4 shift to slam the wax out of the LD's ears... because it ISN'T a power play... and you can FEEL it. Immediately.

I agree wholeheartedly but Karen doesn't have that 2x4 in her arsenal.