You want him to fess up to the OW or do you want him to tell you about the dynamics of their R? I would say yeah it is better to just learn to accept in when atleast they fess up, but I don't like knowing too much about the dynamics of the R. so far my H tells me that OW is less stress to deal with than me... well hello he has to deal with me about 4 kids, mortgage, my medical condition (brain tumor) etc etc etc, bill, bills, and did I mention bills.... so of course it is less tension when he is at her freakin house he just has to be there...
I am sorry about the change in plans to buy the house, but with things unstable it is probably best that you wait for that for when things are made right. That is one hard thing for me right now... we bought or house 10 years ago when I was 19, so leaving the equity and stuff plus the fact that he doesn't want to move the kids into anything smaller, so I am so darn dependent on him to pay the expenses here even though I work full time he has to shell out an awful lot of money to keep us in the house and that again lead to the notion that OW is so much less stress to be there. I think she is on housing assistance and has no rent or if she does it is probably 1/4 of what we have to pay here.... blah blah blah...
Like the Bible says her (the OW) lips will drip honey in the beginning but in the end she will be bitter and her tongue will be sharper than a 2 edge sword.....
me:29, H 33 Bomb- 11/06/2006 I came home from work to find that he had moved out into an apartment. next day he says he wants to work on our marriage but will not return until he feels right. kids-4 m-10 years T- 13 years another Bomb-Sept '07 OW confirmed...
