You seem to have a great handle on dealing with missing him. I like the 30 minute part of it.
What part is specifically so hard? : ) that is rhetorical all of it is hard, just to different degrees.
The relatiosnhip talks? Ahhh...just Don't. The opposite of Nike. Just Don't Do it.
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I know for sure that he is not sitting at home stressing about the conversation, so why am I? I need to GAL!
Well....unless you're physic telepath, and if you were I would hope you used THAT power for good, or were REALLY fabulously rich, You don't know what he is doing or thinking when your not around. So why worry about it? Either way, one you don't know, Two if you did you cannot control it.
GAL - what do you do for fun? Go do it. What have you always wanted to try to do? Go do it. What are you afraid of, what are your fears? Go conquer them. The last part REALLY helped me out. I mean NOTHING had been as scary or as painful as being an LBS with 2 boys, my wife f-ing my former friend. To that end, My old fears...phhhpt. Piece of cake. Faced my fear of heights, bungie jumping, some of the crazier amusment type rides, called the slingshot. Going sky diving this summer. Spiders don't scary me...though they creep me out a little still.
Do something, better yourself, learn something, GAL.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
