IMHO, don't go. Going allows him to eat cake for a little longer. I think sometimes there is so little repercussions for these WAS's. They carry on a double life, getting it both ways, (no pun intended). They feel that as LBS's we will take every little morsel from them and grasp at it. LO, your H is driving the bus to D'ville. He has filed and is pursuing the D. Part of detaching is letting him see what an Olive free world will look like.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......