Originally Posted By: ann25

I know that doing the non baby stuff would be fine with me, but his babies are the ones hurting from his lack of attention.


So... suggest that he give them attention in other ways... and think about SPECIFIC ways, that he might do that.

the average man has no idea what to do with something under 5 years old.

and if the "something" is female... well, then we're probably lost no matter what the age ;\)

What's going on with him and your daughter? What did he used to do, that he doenst any more, that she misses?
(give *specifics*, not generalities, please ;\) )
And why isnt he?



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It's funny. For the first time in about 6 months, i finally got him to take out the trash. Where we live, we have big trashcans and have to walk them to a dumpster, i'd ask and ask and then i'd just go do it. The last month or so, he has been. I thank him every time. I really do appreciate it.


well that sounds really nice then. both what he's doing, and you thanking him for it.

Last edited by Dom R; 01/07/08 11:26 PM.
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