I'm not asking her to do anything, calling except when I have to. Pretty much keeping it all business and seeing what happens. The 30 is more for me to figure some things out, not about the R. I have some major other issues going on right now, and just thought it better to resolve those prior to reassessing my M.
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I just really don't have time for it right now. Even if she came over tonight and said lets do it, I'd seriously ask to speak after the 30 days, just not in a frame of mind to deal with her on any type of emotional level, and it is helping me to deal with her on an emotional level.
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Well now she is coming over tonight, wants a movie night. Said I have some things to do first, but probably around 7:30, and she was like cool.
Just wanted to point that out. Good luck and stay focused