Originally Posted By: ann25

I've got this whole list of books to read. 5LL is on it. working my way to that point. At this point, anyone have an opinion as to which would be more beneficial to read first: 5LL or men are from mars? I've got both and am almost done reading the one i'm on now.


you need to figure out yourself, and what you want, before you can figure out your husband.

5LL will help with understanding what you want better.
The other book, wont, I'm guessing.
(I havent read it: however, the whole title premise would seem to be, "women are like _this_". Which you may or may not completely match. Whereas 5LL is more like, "ALL people may have some, or all, of these qualities... See which ones are most like you individually")

"Fall in love, stay in love" (and their site, marriagebuilders.com) have detailed questionaires, to help you figure out in even more detail, what kind of love building actions appeal to you most.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle