Thanks so much Anned. You are really helping me. Husband called this AM just before I left for work and told me that he still loves me and wants to talk tonight. I don't know what he wants to talk about.
Just a quick word about my daughter, I don't think she is trying to manipulate me so much as she is trying to protect herself. She is in counseling and says she talks about this stuff, so maybe she is actually the heathliest!
I have to go find some dinner before the husband calls, but I'll be back later.