I wanted to add also H keeps trying to switch visitation around every week - hes a traveling salesman - but you know his work sched is not my problem anymore and I do feel like he thinks I have no life and nothing to do - so I am going to make him stick to a set schedule - he just emailed me to change the hours again this week so I'm just trying to figure out how I word I need set visitation without pushing him away. Its hard to Db if you can call the point I'm at DBing since was are in divorce ct and he wont speak to me and he is the one with ow - but I dont want to be walked on anymore - I guess I will take your advice FA and just email him - sorry cant do that day I have plans. I think that is a perfect DB response.
