We talked about a few outstanding money details and I said something like "oh that can just wait until the divorce is finalized before we deal with that".....
Was it wrong to refer to getting a divorce?
Hey Essie,
So sorry that you're finding yourself on here, but you'll get great support- there are really inspirational people posting on these boards.
I wouldn't see it as a bad thing to have mentioned the D word to your H. When I first found out about my H and the PA, I went a bit crazy, threw my rings at him and said I would get a divorce. Generally did everything a good DBer shouldn't so! But since then, I haven't mentioned it and he hasn't brought it up either, and things are looking a bit better now than they were then (2 months ago).
So my advice would be to not worry about it too much, get out and do some good GALing, and not to bring the D word up again.
Hope you have a lovely day today. How long have you been separated for (if it's OK for me to ask)?
OD.
PS. Thankyou for your lovely comments on my thread!
