there is no formula, all sitches are different, and could be a mix bag of the above. ANYthing could happen, if there is an OP, it starts as a quick fix, as someone who's meeting your needs when you are hurting, mostly like an escape route. At that time, people demonize the LBS and for them it is over and done, they will sound sure and they will a lot of things--most of them out of anger.
Remember what the DB book says? believe half of what you see and even less of what you hear? In the heat of anger all sorts of things can be said, my H told me he never was happy, that our M was not good. Much later on when he came home he did agree that we were happy.
Yes, she will be angry for a few months and the only things you can do now is validate her and tell her that you do understand that she needs space and time to think. Right now, you can't make her do anything, just be understanding, no begging, no expectations when you see her, just GAL and work on yourself and give her time.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
