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[COG]

FrankD,

I'll have my prayer warriors pray for you and your W.

Just a couple of quick notes:

1) My sister and two of my kids get hypoglycemic. The kids get grumpy beyond belief, almost impossible to communicate with them. When that happens I ask them when they last ate and what they had. Inevitably they haven't eaten for hours. So we just about have to force them to eat something. They'll literally be crying and eating, but after about 10 minutes they turn back into the sweet angels that we've come to love and skip happily off into the flower patch once again. It's like a diabetic having low blood sugar.

2) All things considered, if you really think that getting a D is necessary for YOU to become happy, then go for it. Don't let anyone stop you.

3) Get physically fit. Strong body, strong mind. You don't have to be a total jock, just get your body moving, heart rate up doing something. It's an amazing stress reliever. Yes sex counts if you can keep it up for an hour or so at a time.

4) Don't fall into the trap of judging your W, or passing responsiblity for your miserable condition on to her. Pray constantly, eat healthy foods, and exercise regularly.

God Bless you my brother. You've helped a lot of people on this board and it's time you helped yourself. You may think you're beaten, weak, can't go on, but just take things one step at a time. Stay in the moment.

God Bless You,

COG