Wow, I'd be a little nervous about all that's going on....just because you've been through so much.
However, sounds like your W is doing what she needs to do on her end to get things moving in the right direciton. I know time will tell, but maybe her not calling all the time is because she doesn't want to put much out there before it's actually done. Just a thought.
I truly hope all goes well for you.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day