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W seems to have just heard from the lawyers and is paranoid and a bit hostile again. She asked me if I've heard anything from my lawyer and I said what Lan advised and that I didn't want to talk about it further. She asked why I want to meet her and I said it was to discuss S7's progress at school, etc. Then she said "can't we talk on the phone" instead. So I said its better to talk about this in person but its fine if you don't want to meet and then she agreed to meet.

So I don't want her to think I'm playing games with wanting to meet her. At the same time the legal/financial stuff is really taking its toll on me and I may not be able to sustain DBing much longer - the two processes don't go well together. Either she (1) agrees to something reasonable soon (2) puts the D on hold or (3) I'll have to really tighten the screws in my own best interests, including but not limited to selling the house in order to get some resolution. I'm just thinking aloud ... don't really know the answer.