Hey John,

I'm too scared to be ecstatic, I'm more cautiously optimistic.

I have to follow W lead for now and it seems that she throwing herself in to home improvement to take her mind off all what's been going on. I don't think I'll be able to relax until she says in more positive tones that it's just the two of us (and D6) moving forward. I still don't think she's got OM out of her system and I have no control over that.

On a positive note I fixed the draughty window in the bathroom so W will no longer have to freeze her butt off in the mornings. She seemed quite pleased that I did that job and she touched my arm as she thanked me. Then jokingly she said you should have done that job six tears ago, and we both laughed.

So she talking in terms of house, house, house so I just have to go with the flow, maybe she'll think about the R later.


Me:50
W: 49
T:20yrs
M: 14 yrs
D:11
2005 PA
2006: EA (2003 : 2007)
2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate
2008: Feb Piecing
2009 Limbo
2011: Separated (same house)
2013: Divorcing