And given all this, that is exactly why every time I get online and read men's profiles in matchmaker.com or whatever... I just shake my head and move on... they ARE acting puppy for they are seeking an 'emotional response' from me...
Duh! Maybe you are responding like that because like you said, you are just not ready to get out there. Women play bunny and men play puppy because it works to get an emotional response from the opposite sex. The whole mating dance and all the stuff...
Maybe you are responding like that because like you said, you are just not ready to get out there. Women play bunny and men play puppy because it works to get an emotional response from the opposite sex. The whole mating dance and all the stuff...
But my bunny isn't damaged, nor is it even trembling. Me being not ready isn't about my bunny.
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Women play bunny and men play puppy because it works to get an emotional response from the opposite sex
Maybe my terminology is just off with everyone elses... but my bunny is not the one who signals readiness...
I was kind of thinking the same thing, but was afraid to say it out loud, as I seem to not be quite landing on the same page with everyone.
And I don't know if it's so much that I'm not horny... because I feel kind of a black panther type yearning... a slam a guy against a wall, hot burning yeowling type thing... and then just disappear into the night kind of thing...
My bunny is completely and utterly ok with this.
My monkey would very much like to feed the lionness, but doesn't want to get too close for fear of having its hand removed for the effort.
Hence... me not being ready for the... "How much is THAT Puppy in the Window?" Not a good place to be, kwis?
BUT... my monkey IS making headway, for I'm not so much lionness right now that I want to go out prowling... my monkey is seeking ways to amuse the lionness out of her snit. Then I think I'll be good to go.
Ok, I get it. You want to fight, not play, because you're feeling kind of angry. You're right to believe that you need a strong bunny if you want to go out prowling lioness fashion. Either that or you need to believe that you killed the bunny. Otherwise, no way you can deal with that oxytocin hangover unless you hook up with a wolf experienced enough to help you out or ,according to my more party girl sisters, your real hangover is so bad you just don't care - lol. My sister was telling me that a guy she once had a 2 or 3 nigh t-stand with joined AA a while later and felt compelled to contact her to apologize for "using" her for sex as part of his amends. Totally p*ssed her off.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
I didn't kill my bunny. And honestly, she is strong enough to go out with my lioness... she just has to have her package of condoms with her to cover all the bases... which, by the way, gives me such a hysterical librarian/bunny mind video in my head... that I begin to feel less lioness and more monkey... and you can see where that kills the 'prowl' mode.
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My sister was telling me that a guy she once had a 2 or 3 nigh t-stand with joined AA a while later and felt compelled to contact her to apologize for "using" her for sex as part of his amends. Totally p*ssed her off.
Good God, that would so happen to me...
And I'm not all that angry right now, either... wouldn't call it depressed... I don't know what I am, honestly. Best to keep all the animals at home in that frame of mind, I'm thinking...
I didn't kill my bunny. \:\) And honestly, she is strong enough to go out with my lioness... she just has to have her package of condoms with her to cover all the bases... which, by the way, gives me such a hysterical librarian/bunny mind video in my head... that I begin to feel less lioness and more monkey... and you can see where that kills the 'prowl' mode.
LMAO- As you may have noticed, I haven't really done much prowling myself since my split. This is mostly due to my realization that my bunny was actually more beat up in my marriage than my monkey or lioness. Now that I've got bunny back in fine fluff, I'm letting her have her way a bit and she likes holding hands and getting "Sweet Dreams" text messages more than staring down wolves. FloppySocksGuy has sent me a suggested itinerary for our weekend together and it's all very much to the liking of bunny and monkey. BTW, I told him I would arrive at the airport in my best Nancy Drew Girl Detective outfit but I really don't know what that should look like. Any suggestions?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
I told him I would arrive at the airport in my best Nancy Drew Girl Detective outfit but I really don't know what that should look like. Any suggestions?
Depends on the weather of where you are going... but I'd don some killer jeans, stylish pumps or black boots... a light grey blazer... with a light pink or cream color lace camisol underneath. Dangle earrings... maybe kind of antique...y
I'd wear your hair in a slightly tousseled down, or maybe pulled back in a lose pony tail with lots of hair tendrils... and either a pair of sunglasses or really stylish eye glasses propped on top of your head.
Or you could always go with a Rene Roossou style from The Thomas Crown Affair...
... so what's the ground rules? Is he going to put you up in a nearby hotel? I don't know that I'd go with the intent of staying with him without having met him first...
As for me and this mood... I just haven't really met anyone who I find... even mildly interesting. Good looking, sure.
I don't want to be sweet, hold hands (no offense, I understand your compunction)... but I don't want to be too monkey... and I don't really WANT to be lioness...
... quite honestly, all my animals are BORED. My life feels like a hot summer day, where I'm too lazy to go and do anything... but I certainly am appreciating the day, the blue sky, the breeze... the sun...
BTW, I told him I would arrive at the airport in my best Nancy Drew Girl Detective outfit but I really don't know what that should look like. Any suggestions?
Ever since the TV show in the 70s with Pamela Sue Martin, and after her appearance in Playboy magazine, (pause for moment of silence in reverence to pubescent lust), I've had a Nancy Drew look stuck in my head: Trenchcoat, magnifying glass, high heeled boots, and nothing else.
I'm not suggesting you dress this way, I'm just letting you know that if the guy is in his mid-40s, you might be dealing with similar expectations.
I think I have to revise my 'my lioness isn't horny' statement. I went to work out... oy. I was dam near 'in heat' when I left, and I'm not talking about sweating. And honestly, I don't think I could tell you what one man's face looked like, either, nor frankly, did I care. I just have images of straining 'pipes' and sweat and grunting sounds running through my head
