So just a quick update my H called me 45 min. ago to talk about D's dr. appt even though I had texted him that it turned out to be just a virus. So he didn't need to call...anyway he then said he had an appointment for himself for this afternoon as he felt similar to our D. I told him I hoped he would be feeling better and then very casually offered to tell the kids he had a "work meeting" tonight & would be gone(since he is now at a hotel). He said no, he would be home tonight after his dr. appointment. I asked if he would be eating dinner with us, he said yes. Then I offered to go out myself once he got there if he wanted alone time with the kids, but he said I could stay. I asked him if he got my message last night, he said yes. I reiterated that I do want what is best for him, he said he understood that. Then I repeated my wish for his improving health and said I would see him tonight. I ended the call before we got into "weird" territory. So any suggestions on how I should handle tonight? Don't know if he is coming home to sleep too or just to see the kids, then back to hotel, etc. Guess I will keep the topics light and let him approach me. Thanks for any suggestions!
