Dominance doesn't get her what she wants. Neither does 'angry mother' or 'pouty girl.' And that's when I head in a different direction, totally. She may not 'get fcked' in return, immediately, but... that's just where you've got to be patient in spite of yourself... and understand that bad behavior is never, ever rewarded.
Oh, we're still on the same page. That's why I said there's little difference between high monkey and lioness. Flip-flop, flop-flip etc. Little difference to me whether I make a guy like GP roll his eyes towards Jesus due to my teasing monkey ways and then haul me down the hallway or get pinned down directly by a guy like NG and made to orgasm 3x and then I need to even the score somewhat or what you are suggesting. But in order to make things explode you need the TNT and you need the spark and it's just not going to happen if one partner alone has to bring both and the fact is that even really HD girls usually got more spark than TNT. If a guy is sparking his TNT with porn or low on supply due to border-line alcoholism or depression or anxiety or shame or etc. etc. not much a girl can do.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver