Especially if presented in the context of, "I am interested in making things better" as opposed to "you need to be trained as a lover, H!"
I think this is just his mind set, it's always been that way. I think he feels like things are fine and if i try to say, hey, doesn't this look neat, it's automatically, why, what's wrong with what we are doing now. I reassure, but it doesn't always help. Right now, i think he's a little sensitive for that. Hopefully i can show him some things soon.
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I am glad he apologized to you. Could you let it slide and tell yourself "he must just be teething?" or something? I know it's hard.
I'm normally really good about the whole duck's back thing, but sometimes it just gets to me. Like i ruined his whole day because he wasn't willing to fold a little bit of laundry, or not even fold it, but look through it? Actually, by the time he apologized, i was totally over it. I get upset in the moment sometimes, but i cool down really quickly most times.
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think of sex as not just intercourse, but everything else.... if the intercourse part is not fun, are there other things that you can share together that are fun that might lead to Os
Uh, yeah... try telling him that. hehe. really though, I enjoy sex. I always have. Its the getting worked up for it that's hard, once i find myself in that state of, OMG yuck, its hard to get out of it. once it's going, it's fine. Os are few and far between and always have been, doesn't mean i don't like the time spent trying to get there. to me, odd as it may seem, some of the other stuff seems more intimate than the actual intersourse, so those are harder for me at least when it's him doing it. I almost feel like that's not something he should be doing to me, cause of issues that happened in the begining of our M (long story) anyways, i'm hoping that as we get closer, physically and emotionally, that we'll be able to share more together.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
