Came downstairs this morning and W in my office faxing copies of our tax returns to L....nice.
So I went out into kitchen, on her computer was email from L about petition....double nice.
so I asked her...'why are you really doing this?'
Her...'because I'm not happy, I just want to be alone'..
me....'I'm not the source of your unhappiness, I think you will find...I think it has more to do with you being 39'....
her...'what are we going to do or what are you doing for your bday?'
me...'I dont know'
Interesting conversation..... A) her being 39 is on her mind... B) who really wants to be alone? she doesnt...she wants to be w/ om....people dont leave jobs or relationships unless there's something better to go to.
other issue came up....while she was in my office I said I noticed you put your necklace I gave to you for xmas back in my office...in it's box. I am assuming you are rejecting this or returning it? I'm surprised you dont have the guts to let me know, you just slipped it in here?
her..'I just figured you wouldnt really want me to have it anymore'.
me..'why would I give it to you?'
As for my bday...I'm 40 this week. Nice....if I'm served today or tomorrow, I think I'm going to squash any plans from her if she's making any....whats the point?
also...if served...I would still really like to 'serve' OM's wife...I just really want to talk to her. I have read some places where its best to end it asap, and others are advising keep to yourself. I have kept to myself and look whats happening. what do i have to lose?