We're almost on the same page. I'm just saying that if she "f*cks "her H, she's not getting what she wants which is "to be f*cked".
That's the power play, fer shore.
Dominance doesn't get her what she wants. Neither does 'angry mother' or 'pouty girl.' And that's when I head in a different direction, totally. She may not 'get fcked' in return, immediately, but... that's just where you've got to be patient in spite of yourself... and understand that bad behavior is never, ever rewarded.