Well, again the husband and I had a good weekend together. We get along pretty well, and spend a lot of our time laughing together, except for the few occasional minutes when we accidentally talk about divorce or the OW which I do try not to do. He did tell me this weekend he doesn't understand why I don't just "move on" with my life. Later on, when the kids weren't around, I said (I know this is anti-DB, but he brought it up, I told him, well b/c I said if you must know, I think at some point maybe you will realize there is a value to having a woman who has loved you for 22 years and not the fake you (which I didn't explain b/c he knows what I mean but because he is always one who goes around faking he is this wonderful guy and the OW probably knows just the best of him and about 10% of what he is really like at this point after 5 weeks of knowing him well) and I know all his flaws and warts after living with him after 22 years and I still love him and someday he might appreciate that." He didn't say anything to that.
The pastor at church Sunday talked about living a moral life, which he included not cheating on your wife as an example. I asked H about the sermon and he said he thought it was great, he's going to not cheat on his 2nd wife! My H moved from our bedroom to a bedroom upstairs last night so I will start get used to being separated or something, we have been in the same room for 22 years so I got hardly any sleep last night. I hope it was the same for him but I doubt it, he probably emailed his girlfriend all night! I just pray every night they will break up soon because I think that is the only hope for our marriage...I finished reading my copy of Divorce Busting Friday, and ordered Divorce Remedy today from Amazon, so hopefully it won't take too long to come in and am looking forward to that.
