So, H decided to stay up all night and basically sleep all day both weekend days. Not sure why he does this, but whatever. Sunday, i decided that I'd spend some time doing the extra stuff that he has been complaining about lately. So i cleaned and hung out with the little ones.
at one point, the girls were standing in my bedroom just staring at him. They miss him when he does that crap. anyways. he got up at about 4pm. Left to go get a haircut and then came back. D1 was practically attached at the hip once he got back. While he was gone, i took some extra time to get ready, so i'd look nice cause he wanted to go out after he got home. He didn't notice the effort, but i felt better, so i guess that is all that really matters. He asked what was up with the baby and I told him that they miss him. They hadn't seen him all day except earlier and I told him how they were watching him sleep. I think he felt really bad. I told him what i had been doing all day and how the day had gone.
Something i've noticed about my H - when he feels bad, he wants me to buy things. Last night, we were out, doing some shopping and he was feeling bad about sleeping all day and kept asking me if there was anything that i wanted. that it was important that i got stuff i needed too. (i normally don't get anything for myself) I think that's his way of saying sorry. He does it with the girls too. Problem is, all we all want is his time, not things to fill our time away from him. anyways...
Last night was ok.Not as bad as last week, not great, but better.
over all, good weekend. No fights as H was sleeping most of the days... just ready to start a fresh new week.
Hope everyone is good!
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