WAS says "Consider beginning to live as if she were not there. Depend on her for nothing. You must stop thinking about what you can do to affect her thinking. Change for yourself." Sounds like good advice we could all put to use! I need to practice what I preach...and believe it as well! We read the same advice from thread to thread...but I know I for one haven't always been doing what I read....

You always have good advice for others...are you doing what you say? Just asking?

How did the rest of your weekend go?

BA

Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally