That's kind of why I said that Karen should fck her H silly; go for what SHE wants/can TAKE from the situation; not perform in order to get her H to GIVE her what she wants.
Big dif.
We're almost on the same page. I'm just saying that if she "f*cks "her H, she's not getting what she wants which is "to be f*cked". Of course, there's not much practical difference between high, strong monkey and lioness in terms of actual behavior so...For instance, was I being monkey or lioness when I rubbed up against my 2bx's *ss with my clit? I suppose if I wasn't prepared to reach round and get him hard and climb on board and take myself to completion, it was monkey. The thing I discovered, however, was that me taking the dominant role wasn't the answer because if my 2bx's natural physical drive was 3x a week, his desire to be dominated sexually was maybe only 1x a week. There was no way we were ever going to reach 3x with me in the dominant role without him becoming *ss-protecting. He wanted to be more dominant but he just didn't have "the jam" as he himself put it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
