Does Karen know EXACTLY where her H stands on sex, feelings about sex, feelings about regularity, feelings on restraint, bondage, hair-pulling, anal sex, submission, dominance, kink, swallowing or not swallowing, times of most horniness -- mornings, afternoons, or evenings? No? Why the F not?
While I agree that Karen should know these things in order to be a GGG partner and that her H should be sharing these things in order to be a GGG partner, she's not going to get what she wants sexually by concerning herself with what her H wants specifically sexually. It's her job to get what she wants. If he doesn't want to give it to her or he wants something different then it is his job to communicate that. Otherwise, she's just going to end up like the chubby little chick who followed John Travolta around offering to give him a blow-job in Saturday Night Fever. Trust me. BTDT. Does NOT work.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
