I can't get how she really thinks we will all be better off in the short and long run. So it's back to that idea I have to worry about what's best for me and the girls and not worry about her. It is hard not to worry about her emotionally and financially because we have 50-50 custody. So I'm worrying about when the girls are with her and how she'll make ends meet.
Well I got inspired last night and came up with a good plan for me going forward. There are some dependencies in it so I've got plan B parts for those situations.
BTW, she poo-pooed Retrouvaille, said she couldn't see where it was of value to either of us. That sounded remarkably like an unwillingness to work on self improvement and improving our relationship no matter which direction it goes.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
