You're absolutely right, FLTC. When you return you need to GAL your butt off! When W dropped the first bomb on me I knew that the only way I was gonna get through this was to build a life for myself outside of her and the family. I've done a ton of things to make my life pretty darn full without her. This is the time for you to start making plans for when you return. Be adventurous and do things you never thought you would do...hey, Latin Dance! I too always thought there was no way you could get me to hit the dance floor but I pushed myself. I was the one who suggested to W that we try Ballroom Dance lessons at the community centre, I thought it might give us something to work on together that wasn't related to our M issues. I thought it might help our M. Well, it didn't help but I found out that I actually can dance and not look like a complete idiot when doing so. Now I've signed up for Latin Dance to continue developing the skills I picked up on the dance floor before. It's now something I'm looking forward to! How things do change. So, don't be afraid to try something new but also stick to some familiar things you enjoy as well. I'm thinking of joining a gym too as you can do group activities and/or just go for your own workouts. Have a great day, FLTC.
