HP's hissy fits DIDN'T work. Like I said, they just kept making things worse... like I said, if you had carried it all the way through, I don't think you'd be where you are right now...
Karen has said many times that if she were to initiate sex right now, she could get sex. But it would be because she's bringing out the 'mother,' or at the very least, that is what he'd hear... and the sex would be ... 'eh' for both of them.
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And even worse, was your example about calling a male escort to F her if he won't. Gross. You are still not getting it. The whole sex-love connection.
Well... I think I am... but sex/love happens between a man and a woman, and what she and her H are doing with one another right now is anything but that. Her actions are somehow making him feel boyish or One Down...
My shrink always said to me, "you can threaten to kill your H, but you can't threaten to divorce him. It relieves him of his manhood."
Pretty much what you did was bring out the Man in your H because you finally came at him as a Woman, not as a girl...
I'm not saying that to put you down... that's just the way I'm seeing it. Like I said, I could very well be wrong... ask him... see what he says?
