Your W may NEVER trust you the way you want her to trust you, and she may always have a little grudge. So, get over it! Allow her the peace and freedom to carry whatever baggage she wants to, and move on with YOUR life. Be friendly, happy, joyful, sexy, flirtatious, kind, supportive, and loving. Be all these things no matter what she's concerned about. Point is that whatever SHE'S feeling, does not necessarily have to dictatate what YOU feel, say, and act.
Be very careful about C. If it ain't broke don't try to fix it. Most C's love to dredge up the crap, sling it all over the place, then try put it all back together. That system can and will backfire. I encourage a more subtle approach. Marriage Builders, Retrouvaille, etc. Something that isn't so in you face. In any case, the more knowledge that YOU obtain about R, and communicating with women, the more successfull a R you will have.
Regarding the apartment. If it's not helping your R, then pack your stuff and move back home. Just use the apartment as an escape, second home, a pleasure palace, love den, whatever for the next two months.
You're doing great! A real success story. Keep working on YOU, learning about HER, and taking life one day at a time.
God Bless,
COG
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