... But how did you find out about your wife's affair?
I discovered the EA and confronted her. She denied anything inappropriate. Further digging brought me to the conclusion of the PA. Long story - not worth getting into, really.
Originally Posted By: tryingtoholdon
...Did she come and admit it?
She denied it, denied it, denied it... until I busted her up with a bombshell lie that she could not duck.
Originally Posted By: tryingtoholdon
Also what was the state of the marriage right before this happened?
Bad. Our communication techniques were (and still are, I guess) very poor. We should have done Retro many years ago.
She had and EA a few years back. When we were talking through it, she said to me: "It wasn't ever physical. As much as I love you, I love the kids more, and I would never do that to them."
And when I reminded her of her words, she told me she doesn't remember saying them...
