At least you have a road map to follow now. It doesn't sound like any harm was done either. I think that I would let her take the reigns in the R department and wait for her to show you signs.
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008