W still angry with me, but the intensity lessens

[Lanzo]

Today W has been on the phone bugging me as to when we'll be ordering the new TV (we've agreed to split the cost 50:50). It's ordered now and she's happy. Now she says we should turn our attention to the living room area and she started to outline her plans on what she wants to do there.

I just had to ask her a question at this point. I asked her are you ok making these long term plans about the house.... with me ? Her reply was I don't see myself moving from this house and I can't kick you out, so it looks like we're in it together for the long haul. If we're here together we may as well fix up the house as we originally planned (The plan we had before D6). But we both have to be committed to the plan. I said I was ok with that. So I asked what about "us" then, she said "Oh that, we're gonna have to take it reeeel sloooow". So I said, "I guess I was moving to fast this morning". She said "Way too fast". So I said ""e fix up the house, feel good about everything," "then the rest fall into place", she replied "correct".

All sounds good, I just wished she could have just spelt this out to me sooner (poor communication is our problem).