And don't do the hissy thing, for that's being a 'pouty girl' who wants to get her way. VERY unattractive.
I agree that if she did it "pouty" or "hissy" that would be unattractive bunkey. She should do it nonchalant, cute, confident, naughty, nose-thumbing, flirtatious, teasing, fun.....
I'm just offering this advice because in retrospect this is what worked to get me the kind of sex "I" wanted in my relationship as long as I didn't break down to weak bunny in the face of my 2bx's sarcastic attempts to control me with verbal abuse rather than dominant sex. If Karen's H would prefer dominant sex from her like you described than I agree that 1/3 of the time she should do it that way -lol.
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