Way to go Mark. I just have one thing to add. If you catch heck from the wife it would be a great time to say I wanted to let them know that I love you and I want our marriage to work. It could also be a great time to say I am concerned about you and your actions because I love you. I thought it would be great if someone else who loves you knew so they could also be there for you.
Mark I am curious. I don't think I have ever heard you mention this before. At least I read back and couldn't find it. But how did you find out about your wife's affair? Did she come and admit it? Also what was the state of the marriage right before this happened?
