First off, I would point out that you are taking it upon yourself to look at their profiles rather than putting your own profile out there for them to look at. Therefore, you are viewing them as monkeys signaling availability rather than men responding to your signal of availability. By keeping yourself in a position of control rather than vulnerability you are making the same mistake as you made in your marriage, you are causing the men to vibe monkey because you are vibing lioness and thereby making them unattractive. More than half of the population of single people in America participate in online dating so it isn't the case that the sites are just loaded with losers. If what you want is a lion to mate with your lioness, then what you need to do is put out a strong profile that vibes that way and wait for a lion to respond appropriately.
I think I agree with this. And I'm not out there yet because I don't feel ready. So, if I call them losers, it's just to appease my own sense of 'not readiness.'
As for the puppy thing... I think you are correct in saying it is a matter of perspective. We are largely on the same page, regardless of what we call the critters.
So, if I call them losers, it's just to appease my own sense of 'not readiness.' 
