Stop 'mothering' your H (he's doing some 'bad' kind of behavior that you have to take him to task for and fix). And don't do the hissy thing, for that's being a 'pouty girl' who wants to get her way. VERY unattractive.
Take your H to bed and fck him good. And they when you are done, say to him, "I'd really like more of this from you... you make me feel like a woman in the very best of ways. I like, really like, feeling like a woman with you, for most of the rest of the day, I'm somebody's mom, or someone's co-worker, or someone's friend, or someone's wife. YOU are the ONLY person with whom I can feel like a woman."