It helps tremendously to be with people, no matter who they are, so good for you. Before I left for Iraq, either I was alone or with my kids. I drank too much, slept too little, and worried too much. My social circle was friend we built over 20 years. It's awkward to go back to those friendships alone or worse still with your WAS. I've got some great friends here. The difference in my state of mind is night and day, even though I'm in IRAQ! I'm really concerned about that when I go home. I need to stay away from the beer, and get out more often, yes, even if it means striking up new friendships with males or females. I can't be alone and live just for my kids, who I feel terrible for. They'll grow up, and what are you left with?
