I am just amazed: your bomb date and mine are exaxtly the same - WOW!!
I think you need to continue on your path - your H and mine differed in that his OW was more hidden and he really did not get off the fence until recently (mine just kept climbing back on the fence). Your H seems so confused - he really needs to see what his life will be like w/o you -I am not sure he has the slightest idea of what that means!!
Continue taking care of you!
Have a great week!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing