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After I committed, he has been hitting on me big time.

red flag

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This friend now thinks that we are going to get physically involved with each other that night(he is even telling me he thinks that this is destiny).

Gigantic red flag!!!!!!!!!!!

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I am just feeling guilty about going with him because my mind and heart are definitely still in my M.

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I have read once that it is good to make the H think a little like i am moving on (maybe even date-but no sex).
this is game playing

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I personally feel like I need to make decisions now for me only and not to worry about what H would think about it. I am just starting to feel a little guilty about it. What should I do???
Get out now. This guy is not a friend. This guy is a major a-hole. He is telling people he is going to &^%$ you. What else do you need to know!!!

IMP