I think your strength is your stability, your loyalty, your intelligence, both mental and emotional, and patience.
Translation: You are clearly locked in the role of the nice cow/teacher in this relationship so you should operate from there instead of trying something new and really shaking up the dynamic.
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PS. I still have a very strong feeling H is MBing regularly, which is sapping his natural buildup of "horniness." Might want to ask him to be very honest with you and tell you how often he MBs and that you won't think he's weird no matter how often it is.
Might even say how often you MB to show you can be vulnerable too. Then, if he is, ask if he can refrain for a month and come to you for a HJ/BJ whenever the urge pops up. You would be more than happy to be in charge of his need for release. \:\)
Nice Cow/Mommy: I want you to tell me the truth. It will be okay. Are you going poopee in the corner? It's okay to go poopee. Everybody goes poopee. Even Cow/Mommys like me go poopee. How 'bout we buy you some big boy pants and you can go poopee in the potty like Mommy!
Puppy: Thank you so much for talking to me and being so nice. From now on I will be a big boy! No more poopee in the corner!
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
