At this point, what is holding me back is my D7. Otherwise, I would have been long gone. Seriously, how much can a person take. DBing under the same roof is rough because of our expectations. Because we can not understand where the person (pre bomb) went.
I actually found DB'ing with W at home much easier - I saw far more of her daily personality changes and could better understand what was a response to me, and what was something else. Ironically, our R was pretty good in the last couple of weeks before she moved out.
When one of you moves out, all the dynamics change - Priorities shift and for a while (a good month or two) life is significantly more complex. If you can maintain a good R with your S, then stuff with kids is easier - I can't imagine fighting about time with kids from a distance.
