Stuck in Neutral - MN Man's 5th thread

[phbear316]

MMan

I agree with GD, you need to wait, Maybe you should not meet her tomorrow, maybe you should cancel last minute. can i ask why are you meeting with her? I agree it is very tacky that she is acting the way she is. If you do have to meet with her and want to meet with her, just keep to the subject you need to speak to her about.

Remember you can control the meeting tomorrow, go and keep to a agenda, write it down, do be ashamed to I do it with my h, and will continue to do it. If she goes off course, say well its time for me to go. If she gets mad, let her.

Trust me with my own situations she will not be upset, get that right out of your mind. Someone here told me even if you think they are showing you that they are upset, lies are coming out of their mouths. I see that now with my h, the tears and sobbing hours before he left to go to florida for xmas. It was all a show of lies. I know that but still have a glimmer of hope that he really did mean just one tear of sadness. why I keep hoping that is true i do not know

Remember you, I mean YOU can control the meeting tomorrow, keep that in mind. Even if is something very important you need to discuss with her, keep to your agenda, when you are done getting the information you need, end the meeting. Say well good to see you, I've got to run. Leave. Go around the corner and if you must feel sad, but take a deep breath, you have to show her she is not in control of you, you are in control of you. (GOD i so have to listen to my own words)

Good luck, let us know what happens, you will do great! Keep that chin up!

(((((hugs)))))
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