I do not intend a divorce but I am reaching my personal limit of giving a sh*t. The woman you know won’t last forever in the h*ll of being alone in our marriage.
yeah, if you read this carefully, you said "you dont intend a divorce".
however, I bet you dollars to donuts, he will interpret this as, "you're threatening him with divorce."
Phrases like "(I) wont last forever ... in this marriage", will probably be taken like that.
So will,
"i do not intend on divorce, BUT...."
oh. i'd also definately drop the "i'll only say this once". becuase there's good odds, you may have to scream at him more than once.
(not 20 times... but possibly "more than once")
I'd also suggest dropping the self-pitying "i'm an idiot" type stuff. I dont think it helps.. and it distracts from the main crucial issue.
Last edited by Dom R; 01/07/0803:08 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
