I guess my response would be, "thanks for sharing your list. I am looking forward to discussing them further with our MC. I have contacted x and she has y and z times available, which are best for you?"
and then honestly, I'd start making some changes. if these are reasonable changes, ones you want to make anyway, just start doing them.
if he refuses MC, then honestly I don't know what to tell you. If he refuses to give up OW and refuses MC, that's going to be a tougher row to hoe. but I'd try to get him in the door at MC at the very least.
as for your own list, I wouldn't go too nuts on it...that can come in time. you can always say you are giving it some more thought, but for now those are your top 3 things.
good luck!
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