Yes..I think it is good that my W is returning to her good motherly self...that is good no doubt. But to me and how she got there makes me wonder. I really believe the issue of custody and our home has had her lawyer coach her a bit and give her advice to do this. Thus....I guess that's a bummer.
I dont think she's figuring out I'm important by a long shot. She came home today angry...saying that if I wont move out, she will, and will take all the furniture with her, and she's not leaving behind her kids. I was very calm through this crazy discussion. She also wanted me to agree to a parenting plan. I just calmly told her that I dont think she can really take everything with her and I wasnt going to agree to any plan that allowed me less than 50% time with the kids. I just told her I wasnt doing any negotiating on legal stuff without talking to someone first.
Of course it just makes her mad when I wont agree to just vaporize into the sunset and let her do this to me, let her have it all and I just go away quietly.
She said she just wants everyone to be happy....ok great....coming up with a plan in which she doesnt even know for sure she will be happy, yet screw up two kids and make scores of others upset at her, is very selfish. I can understand it if we actually made an effort at some solutions and decided it wont work after a period of time. But to just give up without finding out is pure and simple quitting.
as far as DB'ing....her mind is so hard set on leaving me, not sure it matters. I am remaining nice, but very quietly avoiding her.
